to move on or not to move on

MOVE ON!!!!!! Ugh. How many damn times do I have to say this. Just do it. Move on and don't look back. Fate works in mysterious ways, this is totally true ladies. So let it work already! You can't spend your days waiting and swooning over some guy. Any guy for that matter. They're not worth it, and they come a dime a dozen. Meaning: there are a million and one guys out there. Don't waste your time with just one. (If you've made it evident that you like a guy and he's STILL being a wishy washey douche bag, who is totally afraid of any type of commitment, then ditch his ass. Let him toy with someone else's emotions.) Because he's not Hannah Montana, and his ass can't have the best of both worlds. So delete him from your life and consider youself lucky to have such learning experiences in your life. They only make you stronger and wiser. xxxxx, L

one sided relationships

Ladies. Eventhough some things are obvious, we still remain to be oblivious to them. Like how awesome-ly cool we are. But seriously. The Ting Tings say it well... You say,It's not what you do It's what you're thinkin' of Well I think it's just an excuse,It's what you put across. 'Cuz I don't wanna be the one Only overjoyed Yeah, I don't wanna be the one Makin' all the noise Yeah, I don't wanna be the one So make sure, you're thinkin' it through You've let me down again Offer me something I know you really meant 'Cuz I don't wanna be the one What you going to offer now? Relationships seem continuously to be a let down for me. And I'm starting to think that may be what they will always be in life. But I'm over it. Boys are half, if not fully, mentally challenged in any aspect of love. They do not know what it means. They do not know how to express their emotions, and most of them DO NOT know how to make a girl feel truly special. Duh. Always remember...YOU SHOULDNT BE THE ONLY ONE. In any relationship. You shouldn't be the only one putting forth the effort, going the extra mile, the only one being overjoyed, the only one ANYTHING. If a dude likes you, he should have some input as well. He shouldn't be completely hopeless... If he's not, then you need to ditch him. Play the field. Date some randoms. Do something reckless. Hell...you only live once. Why not live it to your complete fullness? And I promise I won't think any less of you if you play the field a little. or a lot. You test drive cars don't you? Why not test drive love?

these days

Latley, I don't feel like I fit in. I have changed into the kind of girl I wish I was when I was in high school. College did that too me. I made the best friends, but I don't get to spend time with them like I used too. I love the girls I work with, but I hate that they are 16 and are immature. Why do I feel like I have no purpose in life. All I do is work, and watch TV with my parents. I can't say no to people. I feel like if I don't make everyone happy that wants things from me the world will fall apart. I need to do two things 1. get more friends my age 2. find a boy that would want to date me. xo. k

Confidence--embrace it!

You can never have enough!

As women, we are faced with many situations in life that may, well, put a damper on our confidence. Seeing all these 'beautiful' women on TV and in moves and magazines, that are a size 2, and have everything you could ever dream for. Blah blah. They're mostly lame, and they piss me off. They give real women a hard time.

People don't realize that they get paid to look that good! I'm sorry that I do not have an extra million dollars lying around to spend on liposuction and butt implants. Not that I need a bigger butt, but my friend Kendall does. And she cannot afford butt implants either! It's just so hard to keep up with society's standards. I think that as real, regular, average, amazing, and awesome women we need to come together and form our own standards to live by. We cannot keep comparing ourselves to the fake chicks that walk the earth now.

So what if you're not a size -12?

It's perfectly fine to be perfectly fine with your perfect curves.

As long as you're doing it in a healthy way. What I mean is as long as your curves aren't classified as being morbidly obese, because that is a threat to your health, and you've taken being okay with your curves a little too far.

I do not want to diet my whole time and be unhappy with myself. Eventually I am going to get old and die. Do I want to look back on my life and realize that I was not entirely happy with myself and spent every waking moment thinking about what I eat and exersizing my butt off, just so I can try and make everyone else happy? I do not think so!

I am a size 9. I currently(as of 6hrs ago) weigh 138ish pounds. I am about 5'5" and average built.

• I have hips.
• I have a butt.
• I have boobs.
• I have curves.
• I have imperfections.
• I love every single one of them.

I feel that every woman, no matter what size/shape you are, should learn to love yourself. You only have one body and one life. Unless you believe in reincarnation. Then that's another story, for a different blog. But mainly, be confident.

Take chances. Be brave. Be bold. Take risks. Go the extra step. Talk to your crush. Wear that low cut shirt. Try something new.

Because if you don't, you'll never know. And you'll regret it for the rest of you life. If you try something new and it doesn't go the way you planned, oh well. Get over it. If he doesn't call you back, then he's not worth your time. All I can say, is that if you don't like something, don't sulk about it, change it.

But be true to yourself.

Always.

Because you are beautiful. No matter what they say.

Even on those days when you don't wear make-up. You're still gorgeous. =]

Sugarcoating It.

I really like to read and learn. Since I have a lot of spare time on my hands lately, I have spent a lot of time reading. I like to get books from St. Vincent de Paul's because they are DIRT CHEAP. I got 7 books from there for 3.50. You can't even buy a magazine for 3.50! But I really like to read those Harlequin romances. They are small (I can finish one in a day), the guys on most covers are hot like fire, and the love in the book is something that I want to expirence. I read my first romance when I was a senior in high school, and i thought it was dirty! It wasn't even close to as naughty as one i read this summer, where he put cherries in her and ate them out and licked imported beer off her and put it in her butt...(I think I need to read it again). In the end all the books are the same.

• He rescues her, or she rescues him. Someone is always rescued. No one can just be ok, they need rescuing. So, I need to be rescued in order to find the love of my life.

• One of them is rich. Or has enough money to live comfortably for the rest of their lives. So I guess that the man of my dreams will be rich. I can't wait.

• When they touch each other, like when they first shake hands, bump in an room, whatever, a shock runs through them. More then electricty. So, now I will start to touch every man I see. I will see how that one goes.

• Kissing each other is like nothing they have ever felt before. It's like Miss. K always tells us about the love of her life. I don't even want to go on about this kissing shit.

• He always is tall/dark/handsome/mysterious/built. Always. She is pretty much always thin, blonde, with average size boobs. Oh well, no romance for me I guess.

Well, as much as I love reading romances they make me feel a little empty inside. They never fight. They think about each other all the time. And the worst part is that all though the men are totally boneable, they aren't real. I know that I will not marry any man that women envy, and I am cool with that! Why can't they write a real one! One more thing, I think Lil' Wayne should always wear a shirt. I can see his ribs. NOT HOT.

Bars in Madison

This is how incredibly cute Kendall and I are.

Don't forget it

FYI: Bars in Madison are NO BETTER than bars in Wisco Dells. Sad to say that I believe Wisconsin Dells is more fun than the oh-so-great-Mad-Town. This happens to be in one of those bars in Madison. And if was supposed to be so awesome, why are we in the bathroom taking pics instead of partying it up?

Exactly.

I would like to say that girls are much nicer when they are drunk though. Every girl that we would run into in the bathroom would be nice and social. Probably because they were drunk, most def, but still. It was cool. They were cool.

But it's no Marley's!

A Wise Girl

"A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left." -Marilyn Monroe

This quote pretty much explains my life. I have kissed, and sure...been in love with them for the night, but then when I wake up in the morning I am all better. I listen, but I never believe what boys tell me. Boys lie. I am pretty sure. Or they tell you that cause they want to get in your pants. Or they girl they like, is your bestie and wanna seem cool for her. I am pretty sure. And the leaving part. Yeah, I would do it.

chances

Hmmm so it's been a while since I've been in any kind of a relationship. The last one, didn't go so well, and it's a good thing that it's over. Could I honestly see myself with that person STILL? Definitely not. Ladies: if you cannot picture yourself being with someone that ur in a relationship with, then why are you wasting your time. Precious time you could be using to play the field. And believe it or not, but it's okay and acceptable for ladies to play the field. If guys can do it, then why can't girls. And I would like to inform you that I believe Ladies are better at it then guys. Because we know when to stop. There are a few exceptions for those trashy girls out there, who play the field and have a boyfriends at the same time. You do not want to be like one of those Ladies. I've seen a few like that, and just trust me. Know when to stop. Take chances when they arise. Chances, as in love. It may turn out just to be lust, but you will never know if you never take the chance. Right? Right. So I like a boy. And I'm going to take a chance. I think. Yes I am. The best, absolute best, thing when you first start dating or hanging out with someone, is the feeling and anticipation you get. The butterflies and nervouness. It's my favorite. =] I get these kind of feelings whenever I'm with/around/thinking/talking/laughing with him. Ladies: when you get these butterfly feelings, and you can't think, can't speak, don't know how to react or what to do around a specific guy, chances are that you like him. Right? So take the chance. And if things don't work out. Then whatev. Life goes on. You'll move on, and I'm sure he will too. But you'll never know unless you try. So....if there is a specific person in your life right now that you think you wanna be with, and you get all crazy ga ga when ur around them, then take that chance.

Vixen Pics

Kendall Lynn & Lacey Mae The Vintage Vixens Miss Lacey Mae Miss Lacey Mae Miss Kendall Lynn Miss Kendall Lynn Hey, Lacey, how's my butt? Still flat? so cute so cute xo

What you shouldn't give up

Your independence as a person The right to wear no make-up on an 'off' day Being able to be a bitch, every once in a while Your sense of self Your confidence Your pool house, car, or millions of dollars in a relationship Your lust instead of love on/off switch. (Every girl has one) Being young at heart Those jeans that fit just right...even if they have a million and one holes in them Your old teddy bear Your heart Your friends for a boy Your composure in a sticky situation You should never give up anything that will compromise who you really are. Because before too long, you'll forget the person you used to be. And that's no good.