Men and Alcohol

Alcohol is a strong, addictive thing that a lot of people use as an excuse...for whatever it may be that they need an excuse for. I have found that when you mix alcohol and men it doesn't usually go over well. Feelings get compromised, and you usually end up losing the battle in the end. Now I'm not saying that you can't have a good time and meet new guys, and all the jazz...and maybe even have a nice one nighter..if ur into that sort of thing... But DO NOT get attached to a guy you meet in a bar, or a party...well parties are difficult, and that's a whole other blog.... It usually never works out. Usually. Maybe there's a slim 1 in 100 shot that it will work out, and if you wanna stick around for that heartache, feel free. Been there, done that. No thanks. Here's something interesting too...if he confesses his undying love for you the first time you meet him (assuming he's, well...wasted) it's definitely not going to work out. Ditch that dude, cause he has; not only psychological issues, but substance abuse issues as well. YOU DON'T FIND TRUE LOVE IN A BAR. Let me repeat that...YOU WILL NOT FIND YOUR SOULMATE, YOUR ONE TRUE LOVE, MR. PERFECT, in a bar. It just doesn't happen. I don't care what kind of fantasy world you're living in. It doesn't. That guy grinding on you at the club really isn't interested in you. He's only looking for a piece, or trying to show off to his bros. Where am I going with this.... Oh yes. Be smart. You can still have a good time, maybe exchange numbers, flirt, dance, whatever. But, IF you do exchange numbers: Let him contact you. And if it takes more than two days for him to get back to you, then he's really not that interested in you, and you shouldn't waste any more of your time. We're not getting any younger here, hello! Don't wait by your phone continuously. That's it, plain and simple. You're way cooler than that. Be patient, and give it the two day rule. BUT..if you can't can't can't stand it any longer, try to give him a call/text. If he doesn't respond, let it be. Drop it. And on a last note... If you meet this guy at bar, and he's really cool and blah blah blah, but he's at the bar every night or even every other night...don't waste ur time with that either. In all honesty, he probably has twenty other girls that he 'talks' to too. And ur just another fling. Go to a cafe and meet a nice boy..ya know, those cute nerdy ones =] Or a county fair, or a concert, or a park. NOT a bar. Bars are for flirting, and practicing...To meet a cute-nerdy-boy at a cafe.