Monday, September 14, 2009

The Importance of Being [Earnest]-ly Blonde!

Now. We all know that blondes have more fun, right? I mean it's kind of common sense. I'm not just saying this because I am blonde. At one point in my life I wasn't. I was brunette. From box color that is...which is definitely not a good choice, btw. Okay, so I was a brunette...then I became blonde. This was a gradual transition, that didnt just happen overnight. But it seemed that the lighter my hair became, the more fun I had. It went hand in hand.... Weird? No... Amazing! So what do I mean when I say that you should be earnest when you become blonde? Let's define 'earnest' to begin with: Earnest (adjective); Heartfelt, serious and diligent, emotionally intense and solemn. You may be thinking at this point, wtf am I seriously talking about? I have seen far too many times, blondes who think that they are, for lack of better words, 'the shit.' And they tend to act like their shit doesnt stink either. Which of course is utterly wrong and absurd to even think about. These blondes walk around acting like they own the place and can do no wrong. This again is totally wrong. Remember to keep your head on your shoulders. Just because you have this hair color, does not mean that every dude automatically wants you. And if that's the case, then they're totally missing the true beauty that has to lie within first. You can only be truly beautiful on the outside, if you're truly beautiful on the inside first. That's what I believe. That's how it should be. But unfortunately, we do not all think the same. Being blonde can be a lot of fun, but at the same time you are continuously sticking up for yourself and trying to defend the fact that not every blonde is a total air head or ditz. And that you're not the football team's slutty cheerleader...although that can be fun to think about at times...it's not always the image that I want to give others. Rarely ever should you want to give others this image. Being blonde doesnt mean you should lose sight of your morals and standards. And it does not mean that you are easy peasy! Try not to get a big head either. I know that when you're getting lost of attention you can start to lose sight of things. But remember, there are some pretty shallow people out there, and I'm definitely not trying to sound like one of them when I write this, but some boys may only come up and talk to you because you are blonde. AND they think you're easy and retarded to be blunt and honest. So you neeeeed to prove them wrong. Because no girl wants to ONLY be easy. At least this blonde doesn't. xoxo, L