Choices??

Relationships are not meant to be an easy thing. I wish they were something that you didnt have to put a lot of thought into. But unfortunately, they're pretty much the opposite. They take a lot of work, and a lot of thought. So what do you do when youre not sure what to do? I mean you could just guess, and see what happens. Thats how I like to live life. I mean it just makes it a lot more interesting. =] What if you make the wrong choice? Well that's life, and shit happens. You never know. You could make the right choice in the end. I live one day at a time. I take one choice at a time. Everything. Why not? But not everyone is like that. So what do you do when you feel like your relationship is going nowhere and you're just stuck? Well you should dump this dude, cause obviously he's holding you back somehow. If you're questioning your relationship, then I'm not sure why you're still in it. Obviously he's not 'the one' if youre questioning your feelings for him. And I dont even think 'the one' exists. But who knows. If you stick with this guy, and are questioning your feelings for him...then you'll probably end up doing something that you will later regret. AKA cheating. Well unless you're one of those chicks that has no guilty conscience. Which is pretty hard to come across nowadays. Cheating just sucks. I've been cheated on too many times, and idk if I could bring myself to cheat. But that's your own personal opinion. If you want to be a maneater though..I would reccomend being single. That way there is no guilty conscience to get in the way. And nothing to regret later. =] So: questioning your feelings---> Ditch the dude. or cheat---> and possibly regret it later. Weigh your pros and cons. It's up to you chick. You rock either way! xo L

when in doubt...

do you

• get the feeling your current boyfriend isn't the one?
• know that you like someone else, a lot more than you like the one you're with?
• just not into the guy your dating?

so why do you stay with him? My friend Amanda is from Minnesota, and a small town to boot, and all her HS class mates are getting hitched, well...they have all been dating the same guy since they were like freshmen. And she made the comment that she wishes she had found the one in HS, but I think those girls are kinda scared to try new things. They can't make it on their own, like we can. I think when we feel in doubt, before we make a big commitment,(aka marriage), or just need to figure some crap out, we should sit down and write what we want. In a relationship, life, for the future. Ya know, people who have gotten what they want, didn't have it handed to them, they had to work, work for it. What if everyone shook up the world a little? Wouldn't it be fun? xo-K