Wednesday, August 5, 2009

internet relations

This is going to be one of those brutally honest blogs. I mean what other kind should there be... Especially an advice-giving-blog, only brutal honesty allowed here. It seems like everyone nowadays, is internet 'dating'. So internet dating... [Grr. This was the point where I was going to 'dis' internet dating, and say how uberly retarted it is. But...I realize I would only being do this, because a dude recently chose a internet chick over me. Grr, as hard as this is to say...I'm happy for him. Honest to blog Criss, I'm 110% happy for you. And I'm not trying to be witty or sarcastic while typing this. Just being genuine. Every single last person on this earth deserves happiness, and if you find it on the internet, more power to you! So I guess you are right, I am jealous. NOT that I wasn't 'the one' but because I have yet to find someone out there.] Okay back to internet dating. Have I done it? Well, one time I signed up for okcupid. I had it for a week or two, and thought that it was kind of weird. There were a lot of random creepers and weird stalkers on there. So. Delete! Did I meet anyone cool on there? hmmm, not really. This one chris guy that i still text every once in awhile is cool. But other than the ocassional, hey hows it going kind of thing, nothing. you have to be extrememly careful when dating online. How are you supposed to know that this person youre talking to isnt a complete fake or phony. Not some 30 yr old creeper just looking to get in your pants or some killer. Hey, you never know. So if this person only has one picture of themself and its grainy and all distorted, chances are theyre a weirdo. And you should avoid them. when getting involved in an online relationship, they tend to be long distance, so thats something you might have to deal with. And just because its a long distance kind of thing doesnt mean you can flirt and sleep around as often as you'd like. A relationship is a relationship. Whether its long distance or not. Different area codes, does not mean different hoes. xo, L