Players

We all know what a player is. And no, I'm not talking about someone who plays in some kind of sporting event. I'm talking about those who use and abuse the hearts of those in the game of love and life. The kind of player, that I wanna punch in the face. We've all came across them in our lives. And if you haven't yet, you just wait. Players are (as defined by the Urban Dictionary): N. Plural form of the word player. See also playa. 1. A group of people, usually guys, who "play" or manipulate others to ultimately get what they want, like sex or money, by using charm, game, and a often, a lot of lies. Usually, they act cool, cocky and think they're "all that" -- God's gift to the earth. However, underneath the game of all players, you will find an insecure person who depends on his player image to build his ego and make himself and others think he's the shit. Players need to feel worshipped. Male players usually call their women some term that reduces them to sex objects, like baby doll. This truly is an excellent definition. I feel as if I have nothing else to write about because this hits it on the head. So, what do you do when you encounter a player in your life? Well that's simple. Run. Don't stick around to see what happens with this jerkface. Players go hand in hand with cheaters. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Once a player, always a player. I could and should tell you a story about this guy named Tyler, but that's a whole other blog, for a whole other day. A quick summary though =] ...he ended up sending me a text that was meant for someone else (while he was in my car with me) that said, and I quote, "Baby, I can't wait to fuck that tight little ass of yours." End quote. Ha. Needless to say, he was shocked. And I wasn't. Because... He's both of them, and he'll never change. So i told him to delete my number from his phone and leave me alone. Anyway... How do you know if your dude is a player or not? Oh, you'll know trust me. Most of the things he does, are for himself. He's very selfish and conceded. He does things when they're convenient for him. Maybe he just got out of a relationship, and youre just a rebound. Sex is all he's about. Goes with the last blog about lust. He never shows true emotions, or shows them too often to try and make you beleive he means them, but really doesn't. They hardly make sense. And try WAY too hard. They try to get in your pants within the first few times of hanging out. If they're a hardcore player, they'll try and get in your pants the first time you hang out. So... Watch out. Players are sneaky. But not smart. They're full of themselves and often leave out important details that eventually get them caught in the long run. And don't you worry, karma is a bitch. And will catch up to every player eventually. xoxo, L