Moving On.

Everyone handles this very differently.

For some people moving on is as easy as going to the bar and finding a new vajay or new penis.

But for others it's much more difficult. It takes months upon months of trial and error, to finally get it right. To finally find enough strength to forget that certain somebody. And even then, you may still not be entirely over them.

All is not lost. You can be strong enough. I promise you. I want to help you get over this somebody and move on. Let's think this through logically...because in the all reality, logic is the only answer...

Okay.

So you're with this person, and for some reason something doesn't go the way it should. Things between you cease to exist, the flare/spark isn't there anymore, or this person just turns out to be a complete douche that you shouldn't have to deal with. Okay. We've came to the conclusion, that it's over. El fin.

There are many different ways to handle a situation like this. And of course it all depends on who did the dumping in the first place..ugh, who came up with this expression, and why do I use it? Dumping...whatev, anyway...you could sit in your room, hours on end. Sulking about what a bad life you have because you and your boyfriend/girlfriend broke up. You could write a bunch of emo poetry to help you cope. And hell if that's what it takes, do it. But don't do it often.

...Because then you're going to become some recluse who sits in their room all day and writes emo poetry. And NO ONE wants to be that person. No one.

So, lets say you fall into some kind of depression. I hope that you don't. Depression is not cool. Obviously. But honestly, logically.

Everything happens for a reason.

I cannot stress this enough. If you were meant to be with this person for the rest of your life, it would have happened. But for some reason, it didn't. That's that. It's just not meant to be. And you want to know why??

Because you're destined to find someone better. And yes, that someone does exist. Someone who won't treat you horrible. Someone who makes you laugh. Someone who warms your soul. Someone who cares for you, because you're, you.

I know that something like this exists out there. I know it. One of the reasons human beings were put on this earth, was to love one another. Unconditionally. It can happen, I've seen it.

I have yet to experience it. And if you have yet to experience it yourself, then that's okay too.

But you can't experience this kind of love, if you're not open to it. And you can't be open to it, if you're hung up on some ex lover. So move on, and live your life. I promise you won't be sorry.

xoxo,

L